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Stephan Fontana, also called Neshant
Presence · Embodiment · Aliveness

Conscious touch.Real encounter.Deep transformation.

I accompany you into connection with your body, your heart and your essence.

Free first conversation

From 19 September to 19 October I am on a long walk with a friend and her horse. During that time I rarely read messages, if at all. Write to me anyway, and I will get back to you as soon as I return.

Welcome

Are you looking for yourself, and for what is true?

Then consider yourself invited to open to the tantric fields. Through tantra I came to feel who I am, as a person and as a being. Through the access to my heart and my senses I keep discovering my life anew.

And in doing so I found love: love for myself, for my own strength, and with that for life and for being alive.

My values

They hold in every encounter, in my work as in my life.

  • Honesty

    I tell you how things are. Even when it would be easier not to.

  • Openness

    You may be as you are, and I am open to what you bring.

  • Authenticity

    I show myself as I am. I do not have to be anyone else.

Why people come

  • closeness that wants nothing from you
  • being able to let go, even when it is hard
  • feeling your own body more clearly again
  • trust in a man being present
  • sensuality without any pressure to perform
  • giving your feelings a place
  • hearing your own yes and no again

My work

When I may be who I am,
and feel what I feel,
something true comes about

Everyone is welcome, exactly as they are. Tantra, for me, means being in connection: with my heart, my feelings and my body. And once I have fully arrived in myself, I can enter a true, authentic and honest connection with myself and with the person in front of me. That lets me experience rooms I have never known and encounters that go deep.

What tantra means to me

  • Ether Ether

    Presence

    I am here, with an open heart, present and attentive. Only then can love flow.

  • Earth Earth

    Embodiment

    My body is my home. The place where I notice what is true, long before I can think it.

  • Fire Fire

    Transformation

    I let go of what has served its time. As in a cocoon, where I may dissolve in order to come together anew.

  • Water Water

    Surrender

    I let myself in, as far as it feels right. That does not mean giving myself up, it means no longer working against myself.

  • Wind Wind

    Aliveness

    Day by day I grow braver and freer in being myself, in feeling myself and in coming into bloom.

What I offer

How we can meet

Especially for women

Sanctuary of Touch

There is a form that stays simple: holding, grounding and sensing, for two hours. Here you may receive touch from a man that has no intention, and you decide again and again.

Look at Sanctuary of Touch

Retreats & events

My own retreats are in preparation. Write to me if you would like to hear as soon as the first date is set.

Stay in the loop

Voices

What people have experienced

People describe their own experience here, in their own words.

Read all the reports

Safe space

Clarity is what makes
letting go possible

You can only let yourself in if you know where you stand. That is why I write down openly what happens in my work and what does not, what we talk about beforehand, and why you can withdraw your consent at any time.

Nine promises you can rely on

The first step

Let us talk for fifteen minutes

Free and without obligation, by phone or video, whichever suits you. My work needs trust, and trust begins with a real conversation.

Ask for a first conversation

Or directly: info@stephan-fontana.ch · +41 78 712 01 83 · WhatsApp